You get upset and frazzled about men looking at your body, yet at the same time you have shirtless pictures of muscular men on your FB wall? Witty sayings on the pics don't make them any cleaner. You don't think those are as stumblingblock to other women? I am here to tell you they absolutely are.
Here is the next line of thought. I know there is a degree of subjectivity of the word modesty. I get that. The Bible does require modesty in no uncertain terms. Humans and believers will argue what constitutes modesty until we are blue in the face. Some of us just see things differently there.
Examine yourselves, whether ye be in the faith; prove your own selves. Know ye not your own selves, how that Jesus Christ is in you, except ye be reprobates? ~2 Corinthians 13:5
Thou hypocrite, first cast out the beam out of thine own eye; and then shalt thou see clearly to cast out the mote out of thy brother's eye. ~ Matthew 7:5